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Chip Pickering vs. Soccer Coach throwdown

The Daily Journal is reporting a scuffle between Chip Pickering and the coach of a team playing against Pickering’s son’s team, and that it will all end up in Madison City Court.

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25 comments to Chip Pickering vs. Soccer Coach throwdown

  • Anderson

    Chill, Chip.

    I was amused that the city judge is Dale Danks.

    … In other news, tomorrow apparently sees Conrad Black’s appeal of his “honest services fraud” conviction argued at the SCOTUS — a criminal offense of some interest to this blog in the past.

  • Observer

    PLEASE ALLOW ME (an archconservative) be the first to state that Chip Pickering’s behavior was utterly despicable. There’s no way I can see any justification for becoming involved in a physical alternation with a man wearing a neck brace in front of a car full of 10 & 11-year-old soccer players.

  • Anderson

    Well, the neck brace part is one side’s version of the story, to be entirely fair.

  • bellesouth

    To be entirely fair? Give me a break. Why would the coach lie? He didn’t even know who that violent man was. Regardless of the whether he was wearing a neck brace, if Pickering laid one hand on him and pulled him out of his car, he is guily of assault. I’d say the coach was acting in self-defense.

  • Anderson

    Belle, I am not going to try to explain “fairness” or “one side of the story” to you. If you need the explanations, then they are probably outside my power to provide.

  • NotZachScruggs

    Can hubris + smugness + wealth + a sense of “well-connected” entitlement = “uncontrollable crying” jags at an early age that morph, in adulthood, into assaults on the weakest of the unwashed masses? If so, the landed gentry, when venturing out of their gated communities, should restrict their assaults to those who wear neck braces — the rest of the unwashed masses have been known to mop the streets surrounding soccer fields with the arses of the landed gentry.

  • a friend of the law

    Having been a “soccer Dad” or “spectator Dad” several years ago, I have witnessed similar incidents before involving parents and coaches. Even normally mild-mannered parents will occasionally have moments of “temporary insanity” when they perceive their kid to be wrongfully treated or deliberately physically injured. The instinct to protect your child is strong and will rear its head in a split second given the right stimulus. And this is especially true for divorced Dads (and Moms) who don’t get to see their kids as often as they would like due to child custody arrangements —they may even be overly protective in a subconscious attempt to overcompensate for their absence from the everyday lives of their child. The younger the child, the more this type of scenario comes into play.

    The article does not explain why Hester, the opposing team’s coach, would be verbally abusing Pickering’s child, nor the age of Pickering’s child. And while “verbally abusing” may have been Pickering’s spin on it, I find it difficult to understand why the opposing team’s coach would be saying anything remotely hostile to a child on the opponent’s team.

    I am not saying this to defend Pickering, as I don’t know all the facts and am fairly indifferent about him —don’t know him and he was not my Congress critter. But, there is always two sides to every story. And if Hester did verbally abuse the Pickering kid, then he was in the wrong as well, neck brace or not —that may be why he was in the neck brace to begin with — he very well could have previously gotten his ass whipped for being a jackass. HA.

  • Chico Harris

    Thad Cochran/Tom Waits:

    As if the fact Trent Lott and John Lennon have the same birthday is not enough, here is more proof there is nothing to astrology:

    Thad Cochran and Tom Waits have the same birthday (today).

    John McCain criticizing Thad Cochran on Meet The Press:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y23S33KrO5s

    Tom Waits on The Mike Douglas Show in 1976:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QAAzhm1YBBY&NR=1

    Off topic, I know, but I’m trying to not think about Chip Pickering.

  • Anderson

    I hear ya, Chico. *My* b-day is the same as Sid Vicious’s.

    I think that’s the point where the astrologers start looking at the year, hour, and minute, and desperately distinguishing accordingly.

  • Crispin Garcia

    Chip Pickering = In a downward spiral

    May be overcompensating just a little . . . then again may be completely justified. I wonder who represents him in Municipal Court in Madison.

  • Headscratchin

    I’ve coached 20+ youth sports teams between my three kids and this isn’t as unusual as you might suspect. Only a couple of times have I seen it actually get physical, but the jawing can be unreal. I agree with AFOTL about the “normally mannered” Dad AND MOM fits of temporary insanity. Some of the least likely to explode have the most memorable lapses; absolutely no sensitivity for the kids around, most of who are extremely embarrassed by their parents’ actions. It’s really sad and in my experience both sides of the argument are wrong. If either party would shut up, it wouldn’t escalate – neck brace, politician, town mayor (in one memorable tirade) or not.

  • poorboy

    Soccer is the problem. It brings out the worst in people.

  • Ben

    If you say so, Poorboy. Soccer just puts me to sleep … bought as exciting as curling.

  • mississippiman

    This may be Baker Donelson’s big break into municipal court.

    But I bet they go local – Tommy Savant?

  • mississippiman

    Maybe Chuck McRae has signed up Hester for the civil suit…

  • Crispin Garcia

    Savant’s a good guy and would make an excellent choice! While we’re speculating, how about Merrida Coxwell?

  • poorboy

    Ben, So true. Soccer is not a sport.

  • somslawyer

    Soccer has to count as at least half a sport, since it involves a ball, but no stick.

  • mississippiman

    Nick Walters hired Cliff Johnson and I am 98% sure they are ideological opposites. Who knows, maybe Chip will hire Ed Blackmon.

  • Anderson

    Soccer has to count as at least half a sport, since it involves a ball, but no stick.

    That makes basketball half a sport. Which I can see. Too little happens in soccer, and too much happens in basketball. “Oh, man, did somebody score while I got up?”

  • “Soccer has to count as at least half a sport, since it involves a ball, but no stick.”

    That also makes football half a sport.

    Back to the issue.. does anybody know or care to comment on what was actually said to the little tyke. What sparked this off anyway?

  • bellesouth

    Here’s what a couple of people who said they were there had to say:
    stanby69 wrote:

    I was there and believe me, Mr Pickering instigated everything that happened in the parking lot. The sad thing is that Coach Hester had is kids in the car while Mr Pickering was doing all of his cursing. What even is worse is that Coach Hester had surgery only a few weeks ago and has to wear a neck collar to make sure he doesn’t move his neck to much to cause more damage. This was a totally cowardly and dispicable act by Mr Pickering and he should and hopefully will be held accountable for his childish acts yesterday!!

    12/7/2009 12:13:41 PM

    scribbler06 wrote:

    Was there and saw it. Article doesn’t mention the fact that Pickering was trying to beat the crap out of a guy who was wearing a neck brace. In the parking lot. In front of all those kids and moms. Geez.

    12/7/2009 12:16:38 PM

    stanby69 wrote: He did not direct anything at CP son. He was talking to the Coach of the other team and the team in general about an uncalled act of unsportsmanlike conduct during the handshake after the game. And before anyone ask, yes I was there and witnessed everything because I am one of the Asst Coaches for Coach Hester.

    stanby69 wrote: He did have reason and having coached for 25 years myself I would have handled it the same way. Coach Hester in no way singled anyone out and just said what needed to be said following an incident in which one of our players got pulled to the ground and hurt during the handshake. Neither Coach Hester or myself knew who did it we just knew our child was hurt and crying from landing hard on his back. So for CP to say his child was singled out by Coach Hester is totally untrue!! He can ask the kids and Coach Ian if he wants to know the truth.

    stanby69 wrote: Yes Coach Hester was upset and did speak to Coach Ian about the incident immediately after it happened and did tell him that he needed to address it. No, he never once used profanity and was very professional about the entire situation. All of the profanity was done by Mr Pickering while he was trying to pull Coach Hester from the vehicle. His actions were witnessed by many and they turned in their statements to police.

    stanby69 wrote: I will tell you this, when I was removing the man, who was standing over Coach Hester on the ground, I had no idea who he was and didn’t care. For people to speculate that everyone knows who CP is is crazy. CP could have come and started talking to me and I would not have had a clue of who he was. As a matter of fact, several onlookers had no clue of who he was until one of the parents from his sons team said something. What is pathetic is that a grown man would verbally and physically attack another man, especially in his condition, in the presence of so many children.

  • Maybe the representative was upset by this article:
    http://www.cnn.com/2009/LIVING/12/08/cheating.spouses.lawsuits/index.html
    This blog’s hero Mr Steffey comments.
    I have nothing to say about the gentleman from more south MS. Just reading the noose.
    NL

  • JoeInnaKeys

    Dale Danks cut quite the figure sweeping his floor-length cape across the stage as Mordred in a Jackson Little Theatre production of “Camelot” around 1970–

  • Chico Harris

    Pickering now says, in a Shelia Byrd-written story published in The Daily Journal today, “I’m willing to sit down with Mr. Hester at any point, any place, resolve this, shake hands and set a good example… Instead of lawyer-to-lawyer, I’d like it to be man-to-man, shake hands and move on.”

    Jeez, reckon why Chip wouldn’t want it to go to court? Why would he want to “move on” And this latest family values Republican hypocrite is willing to actually to speak publicly about setting an example for kids?

    This stinks right down there with when Pickering, another no-military service Republican, played dress-up in a military uniform (a la draft-dodger George W. Bush) and put pictures of the act on his Web-site.

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